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butt plug - I sometimes get accused of talking too much about women’s pleasure and not enough about men’s. Well, that’s because I’m doing my part to make up for centuries of misinformation or total lack of info about women’s sexual pleasure, organs and options. So the vibrator takes number one for it’s golden reputation among women. Many women love to use a vibrator alone, or while being penetrated by a partner—the simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris by the vibe and the “G-spot” (a.k.a. urethral sponge) by penetration gets five stars by me every time. Women’s primary sexual organ is the clitoris, contrary to the hurtful lies Freud told about clitoral orgasms being “immature”. Being an anatomy geek, I teach workshops all the time about the vast system of muscles, erectile tissue and glandular structures that make up the clitoral organ and women and men are constantly astonished, often hurt or angry that they didn’t know this stuff sooner, or just excited to have some detailed information about women’s entire sexual system. The clitoris, the only structure in the male or female body whose only function is pleasure, usually requires consistent stimulation. Hands, fingers, tongues and other toys can certainly provide this, but none compares to a good vibrator and sometimes that’s just what a woman needs. Some men find the stimulation of a vibrator on their penis pleasurable as well. Barb and I agreed on the Hitachi Magic Wand as our number one bean burrito option. No battery operated vibe can compare with the full throttle of the electric Hitachi, marketed as a back massager. It has a wide round rubber head, a long life span and just requires a good extension cord for versatility. For some, the vibration of the Hitachi is so strong that it’s too intense and many want something more tame or quiet. My girlfriend swears by the battery-operated Water Dancer, “quiet, powerful and you can take it in the tub.” Whatever model, every woman should have a vibrator she likes. Turn it up girl, get on, and ride! |